What To Do When Someone Dies Checklist
Losing a loved one is an incredibly challenging time, and knowing what steps to take can help ease some of the stress. At Stephen M. Godber Funerals, we've created this checklist to guide you through the immediate and necessary actions following a death in the UK.
Checklist
1- Immediate Steps
2- Arranging the Funeral
3- Handling the Estate
4- Practical Matters
5- Emotional Support
Detailed Guide
Immediate Steps
- Notify the Doctor or Call Emergency Services
- If the death occurs at home, contact the deceased's GP or call 111 for guidance.
- If the death is sudden or unexpected, call 999 and request an ambulance.
- Obtain a Medical Certificate
- A doctor will issue a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (MCCD). This is necessary for registering the death.
- Register the Death
- Register the death within five days (eight in Scotland) at a local register office. You'll need the MCCD and possibly other documents like the deceased's birth certificate or NHS number.
- You will receive the death certificate, which is required for various administrative tasks.
- Inform Close Family and Friends
- Notify immediate family, close friends, and anyone else who should be informed promptly.
Arranging the Funeral
- Choose a Funeral Director
- Contact a funeral director to begin arrangements. They will guide you through the process and help with the necessary paperwork.
- Plan the Funeral
- Decide on the type of service (burial or cremation), location, date, and other details.
- Arrange for the collection and care of the deceased's body.
- Inform Relevant Parties
- Notify employers, insurance companies, banks, and any other relevant institutions about the death.
Handling the Estate
- Locate the Will
- Find the deceased's will, if there is one, to understand their wishes for the funeral and estate distribution.
- Apply for Probate
- If you are the executor of the will, apply for probate to legally manage the deceased’s estate. If there is no will, you may need to apply for letters of administration.
- Notify Government Agencies
- Contact the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) to stop benefits or state pension payments.
- Use the Tell Us Once service to inform multiple government agencies in one go.
Practical Matters
- Cancel Services and Subscriptions
- Cancel any utilities, subscriptions, or services that are no longer needed.
- Secure Property and Assets
- Ensure the deceased’s home and possessions are secure and arrange for any necessary maintenance.
- Arrange for Pets
- If the deceased had pets, make arrangements for their care.
Emotional Support
- Seek Support
- Reach out to grief support groups, counselling services, or religious organizations for emotional support during this difficult time.
- Take Care of Yourself
- Grieving is a personal and challenging process. Make sure to take care of your own emotional and physical well-being.
Conclusion
Handling the necessary tasks after someone dies can be overwhelming, but this checklist can help you manage the process step-by-step. At Stephen M. Godber Funerals, we are here to provide support and guidance through every stage. Please contact us for any assistance or advice you may need during this difficult time.